Abusive Neighbor

[Mremptyinside]

in my country it is considered a melee weapon, so, i need a permission to have it.
And believe me, Brazil's bureaucracy is a pain in the ass

The problem is that I have to go alone for part of the way home. And he knows my routine.

well ok then that sucks but could you change the routine? so change the path you take home? walking an extra mile should be nothing as long as it is save

 

[Mremptyinside]

can you buy pepper spray?

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Would suggest pepper spray or even wasp spray would work fine.

Am sorry its happening to you @TheChimeraMonster. What about getting a dog? A dog that can make you feel safe like a german shepherd? Train it to be loyal guard dog for yourself.

 

[ChimeraMonster]

well ok then that sucks but could you change the routine? so change the path you take home? walking an extra mile should be nothing as long as it is save

this is my main plan for now

 

[ChimeraMonster]

Would suggest pepper spray or even wasp spray would work fine.

Am sorry its happening to you @TheChimeraMonster. What about getting a dog? A dog that can make you feel safe like a german shepherd? Train it to be loyal guard dog for yourself.

believe me i would LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART to have a dog. But for now, I'm not the one paying for my living in here. So i cant afford one

 

[ChimeraMonster]

can you buy pepper spray?

yes! good idea!
i will search for one

 

[Foreignwoman]

Tell his wife about it

 

[sinking_ship]

Tell his wife about it

I wouldn’t. You can’t predict his reaction, and she may not believe it anyway

 

[Foreignwoman]

Or... she doubts if it’s true or not, they fight about it and he has no time to stalk you

 

[Foreignwoman]

Because, why protect him. He’s the predator, would’nt you want to now as his wife?

 

[ChimeraMonster]

Because, why protect him. He’s the predator, would’nt you want to now as his wife?

i never saw his wife, ever, she was pregnant when I moved to here, and i never ever saw her once. She probably wont believe, and he might get violent. really, really violent

 

[ChimeraMonster]

*UPDATE*
a hour ago someone had ringed the bell of my house... like... 5 times...
i didnt even open the door, and did my best to not let anyone know that im in home
everyone i know normally send me texts beforehand, so im sure it was him again

 

[ChimeraMonster]

all this stress is really getting me down...
I've considered suicide a lot lately
... looks so much easier

 

[Petal]

*UPDATE*
a hour ago someone had ringed the bell of my house... like... 5 times...
i didnt even open the door, and did my best to not let anyone know that im in home
everyone i know normally send me texts beforehand, so im sure it was him again

I can only hope it was not him. What this is doing to you is so not fair. Living in fear is no way to live. Is there someone there with you to help you feel calmer and not so scared? s*

 

[ChimeraMonster]

I can only hope it was not him. What this is doing to you is so not fair. Living in fear is no way to live. Is there someone there with you to help you feel calmer and not so scared? s*

Thank you petal <3
;-;
I have been in call with my friends and boyfriend in discord all day lately. Without a single break
It makes me feel less lonely

 

[ChimeraMonster]

*UPDATE*
So the gatekeeper and the security guy was talking to the stalker. And threatened to tell his wife if he continued with this.
the guy panicked, almost had a heart attack, and promised to be quiet if they did not say anything to his wife.
A deal was made so he will not look in my face ever again.

god, im so happy this is finally ending

 

[Mremptyinside]

*UPDATE*
So the gatekeeper and the security guy was talking to the stalker. And threatened to tell his wife if he continued with this.
the guy panicked, almost had a heart attack, and promised to be quiet if they did not say anything to his wife.
A deal was made so he will not look in my face ever again.

god, im so happy this is finally ending

AWESOME !!!!!
Don't forget to thank those two for the huge help and im happy that this will most likly no definatly be over now because you also know now how to threatn him if he ever thought of trying something again.
BIG HUGG !!!!! and a deserving good night of sleep to you
i will be going to bed now too XD

 

[Lightsout]

Call the law enforcement.. tell them what happened. And put cctv in, if not a welcome portable camera will do. They can record voices if you need evidence

 

[kangaroo2]

What a creepy fuck. Yeah someone would have a heart attack if they thought they could get exposed for that. Hopefully he never tries this sort of thing again with anyone.