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Aves

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Haha yeah I had a feeling you may not have heard of it. I’m gonna have to run now too, I’ve got to get my son up and then do the food shop. I really can’t be bothered. Both my husband and I don’t seem to be able to get off our asses :D
 

Aurelia

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Haha yeah I had a feeling you may not have heard of it. I’m gonna have to run now too, I’ve got to get my son up and then do the food shop. I really can’t be bothered. Both my husband and I don’t seem to be able to get off our asses :D
Christ, I can't even convince my brother to go food shopping unless there is literally absolutely nothing to eat. Otherwise, he thinks it's all good.
 

Aurelia

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So we met, and I can't say I was overly impressed by the Scorpio dude...lol.

I'm too fucking picky, aren't I? It kind of feels that way. And I'm probably going to be alone for the rest of my life because of it..*stars

Something he said kind of made me think a little bit, though. He said I'm not like he imagined I'd be personality wise in person. I guess with the red hair and combat boots and death metal, people get this impression of me as an authoritative, aggressive bitch. Possibly even controlling and/or manipulative. But instead, he said I seemed a bit more shy and quiet in person.

Maybe my look doesn't really match who I am and it intimidates and scares away people whom I could potentially match with? But then again, I wouldn't want to date someone who'd get scared away so easily either...nor judge a book by its cover, in a manner of speaking. Idk. Either my standards are too high, or I attract the wrong people, or both...can't really tell which at this point.

But I don't know, he wasn't totally NOT my type nor an asshole or anything...I just didn't feel that "spark", I guess.
 

Aves

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So we met, and I can't say I was overly impressed by the Scorpio dude...lol.

I'm too fucking picky, aren't I? It kind of feels that way. And I'm probably going to be alone for the rest of my life because of it..*stars

Something he said kind of made me think a little bit, though. He said I'm not like he imagined I'd be personality wise in person. I guess with the red hair and combat boots and death metal, people get this impression of me as an authoritative, aggressive bitch. Possibly even controlling and/or manipulative. But instead, he said I seemed a bit more shy and quiet in person.

Maybe my look doesn't really match who I am and it intimidates and scares away people whom I could potentially match with? But then again, I wouldn't want to date someone who'd get scared away so easily either...nor judge a book by its cover, in a manner of speaking. Idk. Either my standards are too high, or I attract the wrong people, or both...can't really tell which at this point.

But I don't know, he wasn't totally NOT my type nor an asshole or anything...I just didn't feel that "spark", I guess.
It’s a shame you didn’t feel a spark with him but I don’t think you’re being picky. You deserve someone who excites you.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Cool, thanks for that. I get the odd break out sometimes but it’s not really bad. I think I have combination skin so sometimes it can look a bit shiny in some areas and dry as fuck in other areas :) and plus I have very pale skin with rosy undertones so I can look very red in my cheeks sometimes.
I thought I was the only one who still got acne. I've had it for 25 years now. Not too severe but it's annoying to still have it.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Might be TMI, but for some reason, girl on girl porn still makes me want the dick.



Lol yeah, act all innocent in front of the public...
Well I'm the same except I want everyone. Not EVERYONE, but I'm open to dating people of any gender. I guess that's why the stuff I watch spans categories. lol
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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I think I heard that phrase from a film or something but I think it could be a good concept for a new dance show. Penis dance routines? I’m not sure how that would work lol (but you’d have fun finding out :D)
I saw this on some show...it wasn't dancing but rather penis puppetry. Supposed to be a comedy thing I guess. lol
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Let me put it this way, my son is having a nap and my husband and I have been sat on the couch watching “Dickinson’s real deal” which is like an antiques show popular with the older generation here in the U.K lol.
Sounds like Antiques Roadshow...I used to like watching that. lol
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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SF Supporter
So we met, and I can't say I was overly impressed by the Scorpio dude...lol.

I'm too fucking picky, aren't I? It kind of feels that way. And I'm probably going to be alone for the rest of my life because of it..*stars

Something he said kind of made me think a little bit, though. He said I'm not like he imagined I'd be personality wise in person. I guess with the red hair and combat boots and death metal, people get this impression of me as an authoritative, aggressive bitch. Possibly even controlling and/or manipulative. But instead, he said I seemed a bit more shy and quiet in person.

Maybe my look doesn't really match who I am and it intimidates and scares away people whom I could potentially match with? But then again, I wouldn't want to date someone who'd get scared away so easily either...nor judge a book by its cover, in a manner of speaking. Idk. Either my standards are too high, or I attract the wrong people, or both...can't really tell which at this point.

But I don't know, he wasn't totally NOT my type nor an asshole or anything...I just didn't feel that "spark", I guess.
You're not going to be alone forever. You'll find the right person for you eventually.
 

Aurelia

🔥 A Fire Inside 🔥
SF Supporter
You're not going to be alone forever. You'll find the right person for you eventually.
Hell, it might even be the fact that he was too normal and wouldn't be bringing enough chaos into my life...consciously, I don't want that, but sub(or un-)consciously, maybe I do. Who fucking knows.

Maybe I only feel that spark with narcissists and sociopaths.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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SF Supporter
Hell, it might even be the fact that he was too normal and wouldn't be bringing enough chaos into my life...consciously, I don't want that, but sub(or un-)consciously, maybe I do. Who fucking knows.

Maybe I only feel that spark with narcissists and sociopaths.
It might be because you're used to that, but you'll find someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
 

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