BPD Support Thread

[Aurelia]

This guy was saying that statistically speaking, people don't grow up to be decent people without a father in their life. So is that why I'm such a fuckup? lol

Well..to be fair, I grew up without my father too (through no fault of his own), and yeah, I did end up being kind of a fuckup. Can't say thats the case for everyone...but definitely doesn't help matters.

 

[Aurelia]

I'm just saying, I don't like the idea that you need a man around to be functional or whatever. I still turned out decent, despite some problems I may have. My nephew is being raised by women and he's a good kid. So I know this bullshit is incorrect.

Yeah, that's what I meant. Some people still grow up just fine and some don't. All depends.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Well..to be fair, I grew up without my father too (through no fault of his own), and yeah, I did end up being kind of a fuckup. Can't say thats the case for everyone...but definitely doesn't help matters.

True but you can still be a good person even without a father in your life. I think that's what the person was getting at, that you'll basically fail at life if you come from a single parent household.

 

[Aurelia]

True but you can still be a good person even without a father in your life. I think that's what the person was getting at, that you'll basically fail at life if you come from a single parent household.

Yeah, no, not all the time. And I did turn my shit around, at least.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah, that's what I meant. Some people still grow up just fine and some don't. All depends.

It's about the quality of the people in your life, not their gender or whatever. So basically if you have good role models that can guide you through life and to make good decisions, that helps.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah, no, not all the time. And I did turn my shit around, at least.

It's hard to say exactly what triggers BPD anyway. And some people grow up with two parents but the parents can mess them up. So it's not always better that way.

 

[Aurelia]

I hope things work out and he does get the help he needs.

He has an appointment for a colonoscopy in the 21st, so we will see what the diagnosis is. It might be cancer, but might not be. I really hope not, but if it is, I hope it's stage 1 or 2 so that he can get treated more easily and start feeling better.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

He has an appointment for a colonoscopy in the 21st, so we will see what the diagnosis is. It might be cancer, but might not be. I really hope not, but if it is, I hope it's stage 1 or 2 so that he can get treated more easily and start feeling better.

I hope he doesn't have it, but I hope it's caught early enough if he does.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

These things look diseased. lmao

 

[Aurelia]

I hope he doesn't have it, but I hope it's caught early enough if he does.

Me too. I can't stand knowing he's in pain. It just kills me.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Mayochup is actually good, but the others are questionable.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I mean....I've honestly never had a thought to mix ketchup and ranch together in my entire life.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

There's a mayo/mustard mix too, and that could be ok...but I still think mayo and ketchup is the winner here. I always like that with fries and other foods, sometimes mixed together and sometimes separate.

 

[Aurelia]

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Mayochup is actually good, but the others are questionable.

Yeah, I like mayo and ketchup together. I'd definitely eat both on a sandwich so don't see why I wouldn't like it as a mix

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah, I like mayo and ketchup together. I'd definitely eat both on a sandwich so don't see why I wouldn't like it as a mix

The others sound kinda weird though. I actually made a thread to talk about gross foods. lol

 

[Aurelia]

The others sound kinda weird though. I actually made a thread to talk about gross foods. lol

I can't stand wasabi...don't know how people eat that shit.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I can't stand wasabi...don't know how people eat that shit.

Yeah it's pretty damned spicy. I get "brain fire" with that. lol

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Here's one that's weird but works. It's a cake that has the mystery ingredient of tomato soup. But it turns out to be a nice spice cake.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Also known as mystery cake. But you probably wouldn't guess the mystery ingredient unless I told you. lol

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Some more that sound weird but aren't:

Mayo chocolate cake...since mayo is more or less eggs and oil, it serves to make the cake more moist.
Chili with dark chocolate
Chili with cinnamon (These were separate recipes, but both were good)

I might be missing a few but those were ones I made that were good.