I don't get why he does this. Does it really satisfy him to know I'm miserable? Is he that fucking twisted? Supposedly, narcissists don't take too kindly to you giving them the cold shoulder and/or not reacting to their attempts at emotionally breaking you. So when you don't speak to them, it makes them want to try even harder to do the above-mentioned things because when they feel they've broken you, it's like an ego boost. Almost as if they're thinking, "look at how awesome and superior I am...I treat this person like shit and they still worry about me and care."
He texts me earlier today saying that something has happened and he supposedly can't text (after he sends me about a paragraph long text to begin with) and that I have to call him asap because he needs to talk to me. He also says he "knows he's the last person I want to talk to right now", which is funny, because last I checked, he's the one who got mad and upset at me and hung up on me last time we spoke. So already, the conversation starts off with a manipulation meant to make me feel like shit.
So I decided not to buy into it. All I basically answered was that I was working, which was true at the time. And then he still says to call him if/when I get a chance...I didn't. I said nothing else because what's the point? Whatever he's going to tell me is either going to stress me out, piss me off, or both. Why subject myself to that? The reality of the situation is probably that he just needs a way in because he sees that I'm not contacting him and it's pissing him off.
He texts me earlier today saying that something has happened and he supposedly can't text (after he sends me about a paragraph long text to begin with) and that I have to call him asap because he needs to talk to me. He also says he "knows he's the last person I want to talk to right now", which is funny, because last I checked, he's the one who got mad and upset at me and hung up on me last time we spoke. So already, the conversation starts off with a manipulation meant to make me feel like shit.
So I decided not to buy into it. All I basically answered was that I was working, which was true at the time. And then he still says to call him if/when I get a chance...I didn't. I said nothing else because what's the point? Whatever he's going to tell me is either going to stress me out, piss me off, or both. Why subject myself to that? The reality of the situation is probably that he just needs a way in because he sees that I'm not contacting him and it's pissing him off.
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