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may71

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A lot of people with BPD have a lot of anxiety about leaving relationships, even if they are abusive. Do you feel like that's a factor keeping you in the same home with your dad, or is it exclusively a practical issue?
 
may71

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ellierose said:
i phoned a helpline explaining what's going on and they said its sexual and rape abuse so they couldnt help me and hanged up on me then afterwards :(
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Was this the number that you called?

National Domestic Abuse Helpline – 0808 2000 247 – www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ (run by Refuge)

That's awful, and really inexcusable that they treated you that way. I think it was a failure of whoever you got on the line.
 
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Hi ellierose - I have been checking out your posts to get "caught up" because I was confused - and I am still a bit confused, so can I just check that I have the facts right?

Your dad raped you, (which is awful, I am so sorry). He is now going to court because charges are being pressed against him for raping you. He is still hurting you because you can't get away from him. Is all that right?

How is he getting near you to hurt you? If there are charges against him for raping you, I would have thought he would not be allowed to come near you as a condition of his bail as you are a) his victim and b) a key witness. I am confused about this part.

We want to make sure you get the help you need, but we are only peer support here and it is clear that you need real-life help to keep you safe and there are things I don't quite understand so not sure where to point you for support.
 
ellierose

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Freya said:
Hi ellierose - I have been checking out your posts to get "caught up" because I was confused - and I am still a bit confused, so can I just check that I have the facts right?

Your dad raped you, (which is awful, I am so sorry). He is now going to court because charges are being pressed against him for raping you. He is still hurting you because you can't get away from him. Is all that right?

How is he getting near you to hurt you? If there are charges against him for raping you, I would have thought he would not be allowed to come near you as a condition of his bail as you are a) his victim and b) a key witness. I am confused about this part.

We want to make sure you get the help you need, but we are only peer support here and it is clear that you need real-life help to keep you safe and there are things I don't quite understand so not sure where to point you for support.
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going to court for him raping me and ill explain privalty dont judge me as its not my fault
 
ellierose

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Freya said:
Hi ellierose - I have been checking out your posts to get "caught up" because I was confused - and I am still a bit confused, so can I just check that I have the facts right?

Your dad raped you, (which is awful, I am so sorry). He is now going to court because charges are being pressed against him for raping you. He is still hurting you because you can't get away from him. Is all that right?

How is he getting near you to hurt you? If there are charges against him for raping you, I would have thought he would not be allowed to come near you as a condition of his bail as you are a) his victim and b) a key witness. I am confused about this part.

We want to make sure you get the help you need, but we are only peer support here and it is clear that you need real-life help to keep you safe and there are things I don't quite understand so not sure where to point you for support.
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i cant get away i have no where else to go i have a little girl i am trying to find a shelter that can help us to have a roof over our heads so im doing 2 things at once and its hard
 
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ellierose said:
going to court for him raping me and ill explain privalty dont judge me as its not my fault
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noone is here to judge. I had written to ask about your story because I was confused about somethings also. “My Story” would be a great place to talk about your history. Also, try to work on your “safety plan.” It can save your life.

noone wants to judge you. You are clearly in danger, injured & in distress. You deserve help. And many of us are interested in helping you find resources to transition into a safe space. ☮️✌️

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ellierose

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FlamingoWrangler said:
noone is here to judge. I had written to ask about your story because I was confused about somethings also. “My Story” would be a great place to talk about your history. Also, try to work on your “safety plan.” It can save your life.

noone wants to judge you. You are clearly in danger, injured & in distress. You deserve help. And many of us are interested in helping you find resources to transition into a safe space. ☮️✌️

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you have 2 accounts?? and thanks
 
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