I have a date tomorrow

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Rockclimbinggirl, Oct 6, 2016.

  1. Rockclimbinggirl

    Rockclimbinggirl SF climber Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    So a guy at work asked me out and I said yes. He knows that I am a part-time student this year. But other than that he doesn't know much about me.

    Just a bit nervous about it. I don't really like people touching me.
     
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  2. Brian777

    Brian777 Safety and Support Forum Pro SF Artist SF Supporter

    I'm happy for you my friend, I hope he's a nice guy. Just relax and it'll be fine.
     
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  3. MusicalHeart

    MusicalHeart Well-Known Member

    Just breathe. It'll go fine. You'll do great. You can talk to us just fine, why not talk to him? Let him know who you are.
     
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  4. GildedFlowers

    GildedFlowers Blooming Blossoms

    Congratulations,

    Never be afraid to express how it is that you truly feel. Help him to understand that you have set boundaries for yourself and those around you. That it may take some time for you to become open about your honest emotions.

    If he truly cares and honors you as a person, above all else, then he shall respect your wishes. Inform him that you mean not to be distant. Only that you are conservative of yourself, both physically and emotionally.

    I'm certain if he recognizes your needs that he will be patient with you and understand. Until an established sense of trust is forged between one another.
     
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  5. Frances M

    Frances M Mountain Woman

    I hope you have fun! Tell us about it :)
     
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  6. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Best of luck my wonderful canadian friend <3

    I'm dying to know how you got on, please fill us in, I hope it goes really really well.

    Hugs and sending good wishes x
     
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  7. Rockclimbinggirl

    Rockclimbinggirl SF climber Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    So we had a lot of fun playing board games :)
     
  8. SillyOldBear

    SillyOldBear Teddy Bear Fanatic Staff Alumni

    Way cool!
     
  9. Rockclimbinggirl

    Rockclimbinggirl SF climber Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Updating this. One year later and we are still together. I opened up to him about my mental health and he is now one of my supports :)
     
  10. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    LOVE.LOVE. Love reading happy endings on here, I am so happy for you. Truly wonderful :)
     
  11. Ash600

    Ash600 SF Supporter

    That is really great to hear! So happy for you:):)
     
  12. nobodyknows71

    nobodyknows71 May the odds be ever in your favour Forum Pro SF Supporter

    I wasn't here a year ago to see this thread first time around.
    Needless to say, I'm so so happy that things have worked out for you this last year and long may it continue.

    Love and hugs x