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sinking_ship

woman overboard
Staff Alumni
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Why are people saying "costed"? Is that a legitimate word?
No, I don't believe it is. Past tense is cost.
It depends on how you use 'cost'. If something costs $5. It still 'cost' $5 yesterday. But if you 'cost' a plan, like estimate the cost of, then you can say you 'costed' it yesterday.
...Though I'm kinda guessing you mean the first example, haha.
 

Lane

SF Pro
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I hate my parents so much, I am so sick and tired of feeling like a heart attack swinging here and there. My friends are thinking I’m crazy for agreeing to a job and not attending to my nieces 1 yo birthday party but can you blame me after that heated argument?
I am going to die. I want to die, has always beeeeen... I am even contemplating both suicide and homicide in my head right now, this is awesome.
Oh Kitty, sorry this is going on. I hope things have calmed down a little bit. It's really what you want to do and what's best for you. Is it a new job? Sorry things are rough with your parents. *hug10
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
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Yes, on top of brooding, sulking and basically being in my pajamas for a week now, the hair cutter butchered my hair.

But she washed it, and that feels so good. Honestly, I find the older i get, the less i care what i look like, truth.
I know what you mean. when we get to a certain age we figure why bother lol. I do get it...mike...*hug
 

Witty_Sarcasm

🦄🦜🧁Rainbow Unicorn (Deluxe Edition) ®🌈🌝💖
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I'm not sure what exactly you mean here. Some people definitely care about you, but perhaps they have their own sh*te to deal with and aren't able to show how they feel for your situation at the same time. Or if you mean you don't want other people to be sad for you, well, it's not your responsibility, as long as you understand their position. Everyone has to learn their limits in terms of empathy and compassion. If you feel like it really hurts them to hear about your problems, like they're too vulnerable right now, perhaps seek someone else, there's definitely people who are able to manage. *hug On the forum you can talk about anything, always.
It's more along the lines of me opening up about my troubles and feelings, and it reminds others of what they are dealing with, and they end up feeling worse off. Then I feel really bad.
 

Auri

🎸🎶Metal Star🎵🥁
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It's more along the lines of me opening up about my troubles and feelings, and it reminds others of what they are dealing with, and they end up feeling worse off. Then I feel really bad.
Well, you shouldn't feel bad, because they feel the exact same way as you when someone tells you about their struggles. You feel empathy, but not worse. ♡
 

Baywasp

I know the world turns and it will turn on me
SF Supporter
My advisor hasn't responded to my email. I feel like a broken record because I almost always have that complaint when I try to reach out to him.
 

HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
I hate my parents so much, I am so sick and tired of feeling like a heart attack swinging here and there. My friends are thinking I’m crazy for agreeing to a job and not attending to my nieces 1 yo birthday party but can you blame me after that heated argument?
I am going to die. I want to die, has always beeeeen... I am even contemplating both suicide and homicide in my head right now, this is awesome.
Oh Kitty, sorry this is going on. I hope things have calmed down a little bit. It's really what you want to do and what's best for you. Is it a new job? Sorry things are rough with your parents. *hug10
yesss i actually threatened my dad to control my mum which I can't believe that works 😂 and im legit going to make sure on my next appointment, my pdoc calls my mum to leave me the fuck alone.
 

Baywasp

I know the world turns and it will turn on me
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yesss i actually threatened my dad to control my mum which I can't believe that works 😂 and im legit going to make sure on my next appointment, my pdoc calls my mum to leave me the fuck alone.
and am I on fire today or what?! so proud i bailed my nieces birthday party. if adults dont behave, I'll be mean as fuck..
I'd say it's not being mean so much as being assertive and making sure to take care of your own needs. Good job.
 

Baywasp

I know the world turns and it will turn on me
SF Supporter
Just did my reading for developmental psych and it was a really complicated thing about genetic factors and stuff. I hope we don't have a quiz on it. (I imagine we won't since we had one on Monday, which sucked because I hadn't gotten a chance to do the reading then.)
 

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