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Except there is no limit to the pain you can feel, and lack of trying only makes things worse and causes more. You may be miserable now, but trying can keep you from sinking to new as yet unimagined depths of misery.
Even if you manage to forget about life for a little while, it doesn’t forget about you. It’s getting worse, your problems are getting bigger, and it will come to collect eventually. The longer you’ve avoided it, the worse it’ll be for you.
Life sucks, sorry.
But if you keep trying, maybe eventually you’ll get to a better place. Maybe there’ll be some small reward for your efforts. Maybe not, but what else is there to do with your time on earth?
Even if you manage to forget about life for a little while, it doesn’t forget about you. It’s getting worse, your problems are getting bigger, and it will come to collect eventually. The longer you’ve avoided it, the worse it’ll be for you.
Life sucks, sorry.
But if you keep trying, maybe eventually you’ll get to a better place. Maybe there’ll be some small reward for your efforts. Maybe not, but what else is there to do with your time on earth?
In practice it's been the complete opposite for me. Once I told myself "stop trying" for certain things, things got better. Also while super fucking depressed I do still have weed, gacha pulls, caffeine, and any other addictive thing you can think of. Getting better is subjective, and I've worn out all the "healthy" solutions. If they worked, I wouldn't be depressed anymore.
giving up is sometimes necessary just as a way to recharge, but only for a bit. if we give up completely then there is no hope at all. it took a few years before i had any real hope, i had to fight to get back up every time i failed. i still fall down some times but i know i can still have some joy ahead no matter what. i hope you can find a way to keep fighting and someday have hope
mike....
mike....
neighbors just banged on my door when i'm in bed relaxing. Trying to accuse my son of taking ''furniture'', saying they saw him on a bike and he doesn't have a bike anymore. When will this baloney end, they catch a slim thing that my son was too loud around here a while back, and then want to blame something ridiculous.. he wouldn't be able to do anything with ''furniture'' and there is none in the building. I'm not a bad neighbor, he cant get in here. uggghhh I'm getting so frustrated. Called my landlord and left a message. It seems like they want to cause issues to have me evicted.
giving up is sometimes necessary just as a way to recharge, but only for a bit. if we give up completely then there is no hope at all. it took a few years before i had any real hope, i had to fight to get back up every time i failed. i still fall down some times but i know i can still have some joy ahead no matter what. i hope you can find a way to keep fighting and someday have hope
mike....
mike....
You’re young enough that you cannot possibly have worn out all the healthy solutions. They take many years or even sometimes decades to work properly. You’re frustrated with the lack of progress, but it feels like you’re expecting the progress to happen way more quickly than it actually does.
I don’t know where you got the idea that “healthy” means “quick and easy” but it doesn’t.
Try heroin too! I’m sure that’ll improve your quality of life.
I don’t know where you got the idea that “healthy” means “quick and easy” but it doesn’t.
Try heroin too! I’m sure that’ll improve your quality of life.
I'm 24 so I'm not sure where you got the idea that I'm "young enough" to have solutions.
Understood. Will do.
Nope. Too late. I'm already gonna look up the states where it's legal and figure out a way to get some. Thanks for the suggestion.
I think you're misunderstanding my analogy. I mean, why try and suffer when you can stop and not suffer?
Understood. Will do.
Nope. Too late. I'm already gonna look up the states where it's legal and figure out a way to get some. Thanks for the suggestion.
you keep touching the fire even if it may burn you because if you keep fighting there is a good posibility that you may cross that wall of fire eventually. and it's normal to fall as long as you eventually get up again.
mike....
mike....
Okay, I'm gonna be blunt. It's clear you don't like me, so why do you even continue to interact with me? I've been doing my best to keep a "don't speak unless spoken to" basis with you yet you still insist on "helping" me. I don't mean to be mean but why even try? You know I'm not gonna listen to you and go against everything you say intentionally out of pure spite so why even try? And a second, better question, why doesn't this site have a proper block button?
