The goals thread

...Working on
Okay....so I'm thinking I need to extend to multiple days but truly will continue to try
So for today
-Call HR to inquire of status of medical leave, FMLA etc.-write list of questions before call
- Work on resume
-Work on creating schedule for medical leave -- using advice from all here to talk to therapist tomorrow
-Work on list of questions for gp for appointment tomorrow
...Working on
Okay....so I'm thinking I need to extend to multiple days but truly will continue to try
So for today
-Call HR to inquire of status of medical leave, FMLA etc.-write list of questions before call-Done all is approved so they are sending me paperwork ( a relief as when checked timecard online entries were in red-caused a bit of panic will admit)
- Work on resume - Since somehow managed not to have at home a very kind co-worker in another dept try to find it attached to grant (sigh....)
-Work on creating schedule for medical leave -- using advice from all here to talk to therapist tomorrow In prgress - finding hard to do on own
-Work on list of questions for gp for appointment tomorrow Done

So for today
Exercise - met lady yesterday and they do an exercise class to video at 8 may not be able to do till Thursday but considering joining...
Therapist appt
GP appt
Consider target date to quit smoking not sure if can use patch with meds so will ask gp today
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So for today
Exercise - met lady yesterday and they do an exercise class to video at 8 may not be able to do till Thursday but considering joining...
Therapist appt
GP appt
Consider target date to quit smoking not sure if can use patch with meds so will ask gp today
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Good luck! Hope your appointments went okay today
 
So for today
Exercise - met lady yesterday and they do an exercise class to video at 8 may not be able to do till Thursday but considering joining...
Therapist appt
GP appt
Consider target date to quit smoking not sure if can use patch with meds so will ask gp today
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All done with exception of quit smoking target date...know have to do...but also know how hard will be...sounds so wimpy sigh....

So goals for today
Exercise 2 miles on treadmill and maybe go back later to swim
Work on resume and that job app
Read chapter in Assertiveness book and chapter in Think book
Organize closet....just got bar and 2 shelves put in yesterday --now no excuse for piles...sigh...
 

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Ok so I've been pretty slack with the goals... I know I know,

So goals for tomorrow

Get up at 8am (god that's like the middle of the night if you don't actually sleep)
GP appointment at 10am (hence the getting up early)
No freak out at work
Cook nice dinner for C as he's not doing so great. I'm thinking fajitas ;)
 
All done with exception of quit smoking target date...know have to do...but also know how hard will be...sounds so wimpy sigh....

So goals for today
Exercise 2 miles on treadmill Done and maybe go back later to swim Oops not that one
Work on resume and that job app Got lost in weeds organizing paperwork...sigh...so these last 3 are in progress...
Read chapter in Assertiveness book and chapter in Think book
Organize closet....just got bar and 2 shelves put in yesterday --now no excuse for piles...sigh...
 

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Ok so I've been pretty slack with the goals... I know I know,

So goals for tomorrow

Get up at 8am (god that's like the middle of the night if you don't actually sleep)
GP appointment at 10am (hence the getting up early)
No freak out at work
Cook nice dinner for C as he's not doing so great. I'm thinking fajitas ;)
DONE!! Boom!!
 

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Goals for tomorrow;

Do hair.
Organize clothes.
Have a roasting hot bath.
Go into the city and enjoy yourself on your own (that might be hard to do lol)
 

Petal

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Goals for tomorrow...

Have an anxiety-free day.
Get work done.
Look after those who love and care about me.
 
This thread got me thinking...so goals for today
-go swimming
-try to be efficient with work tasks/responsibilities but NOT stay after 5

Goals for weekend-
-go swimming
-get book on kindle and actually start reading it
-try to not be on edge with new temp's first weekend alone for open hours for historic site
-try to be in the moment with husband and ,other-in-law not thinking of other things
 
i dont know why but i never got any notifications when people posted!

i was really into this months ago so i guess il get back into it

goals for today-

meditation
do some german
meet project partner + look over assignment before hand
floss
 

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Goal for the rest of today:

-Put my feet up, lean back and not get up from this comfy couch unless there's a fire in the building, or I have to go to the bathroom.
 
i dont know why but i never got any notifications when people posted!

i was really into this months ago so i guess il get back into it

goals for today-

meditation
do some german
meet project partner + look over assignment before hand
floss
i was too down and sad over not having friends to do german. i met with project partner. i flossed. i didnt do meditation
 
This thread got me thinking...so goals for today
-go swimming
-try to be efficient with work tasks/responsibilities but NOT stay after 5

Goals for weekend-
-go swimming
-get book on kindle and actually start reading it
-try to not be on edge with new temp's first weekend alone for open hours for historic site
-try to be in the moment with husband and ,other-in-law not thinking of other things
Well did ok on goals for yesterday --did go swimming before work and only stayed at work till 5:30...now just have to work on weekend goals...
 

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My goal is a sad one. Somehow have to break up with a guy that will be hurt but in the long run less hurt now than if I did it later. I'm afraid I will chicken out. I don't want to hurt him but he wants marriage and love and I can't love him and I don't want to get married. So I have to let him go.
This is a sad day.
 

nobodyknows71

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My goal is a sad one. Somehow have to break up with a guy that will be hurt but in the long run less hurt now than if I did it later. I'm afraid I will chicken out. I don't want to hurt him but he wants marriage and love and I can't love him and I don't want to get married. So I have to let him go.
This is a sad day.
Good luck. I'm sorry it's come to this for you
 
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My goal is a sad one. Somehow have to break up with a guy that will be hurt but in the long run less hurt now than if I did it later. I'm afraid I will chicken out. I don't want to hurt him but he wants marriage and love and I can't love him and I don't want to get married. So I have to let him go.
This is a sad day.
You are a kind person to consider his feelings enough to do what is right even if it is hard. The world needs more people like you in it. The right thing is often not the easiest - but is still the right thing- strength to you.
 

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