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What have you accomplished today?
- Thread starter HappilyEverAfter
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I will cancel and rearrange multiple medical and other appointments today if places are open and finish up tomorrow. I had a busy week planned during this birthday week. I bought tickets last night to fly to Washington for the rest of the week and I’m leaving the 9th. He said he was pleased that I had had the idea.
I was not thinking until this morning it’s possibly to say goodbye to Gary. Maybe not but it’s feeling more that way …..there seems no way to come together about how to make this move happen for me except me doing it for the next 3 months on my own. It’s involved and It would be so easy for both of us to get it done and in a shorter period but he’s determined to not reconsider returning to help out and is without his own place (staying in daughters home) and looking for low level jobs in Washington at this time. He wants immediate income regardless of job description…It wouldn’t have to be that way and so i do not understand human psychology or lack of self care or staying stuck in a stubborn decision once made even if a short time change would create an entirely different outcome ithat is being expressed as desired…..like me being there and our lives moving forward asap.
Humans confuse the hell out of me….Their viewpoints and approaches in regard to relationships and companionship. Words are pretty but that’s really all they are. Actions….. movement and progress have to take place. People are supposed to help each other. Maybe my help will be to unhappily let him go back to living a quiet solitary life which he accepted but was not particularly pleased with before meeting me
I am so very lost I’m grabbing at straws ,,,,going by words and not actions. I don’t have a clue how this is going to go……It should be clear if two people say they want to have a life together and it is anything but clear
I was not thinking until this morning it’s possibly to say goodbye to Gary. Maybe not but it’s feeling more that way …..there seems no way to come together about how to make this move happen for me except me doing it for the next 3 months on my own. It’s involved and It would be so easy for both of us to get it done and in a shorter period but he’s determined to not reconsider returning to help out and is without his own place (staying in daughters home) and looking for low level jobs in Washington at this time. He wants immediate income regardless of job description…It wouldn’t have to be that way and so i do not understand human psychology or lack of self care or staying stuck in a stubborn decision once made even if a short time change would create an entirely different outcome ithat is being expressed as desired…..like me being there and our lives moving forward asap.
Humans confuse the hell out of me….Their viewpoints and approaches in regard to relationships and companionship. Words are pretty but that’s really all they are. Actions….. movement and progress have to take place. People are supposed to help each other. Maybe my help will be to unhappily let him go back to living a quiet solitary life which he accepted but was not particularly pleased with before meeting me
I am so very lost I’m grabbing at straws ,,,,going by words and not actions. I don’t have a clue how this is going to go……It should be clear if two people say they want to have a life together and it is anything but clear
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