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Will the sadness ever stop?

sn00pywriter

Well-Known Member
#1
I feel like I’m treading water but the water is mud. I can’t dump everyone on everyone because not everyone is suited to hear what I have to say.
whenever someone disagrees with me, I feel as if I am the one always in the wrong and I am the one who always has to change. Because if I don’t, I’m the one that will lose friends. Or other relationships.

I wish I were like Mr. Spock of Star Trek. He never felt anything and he never let emotions get the better of him. Maybe that would be better. I’m tried of feeling this way; I’m tired of feeling, period.
 
#3
I get where you're coming from—it’s tough when it feels like you're always the one who has to change just to keep things from falling apart. I’ve been in situations where I felt like if I didn’t agree or adjust, I’d lose people, and it really messes with your head. I used to wish I could shut off my emotions like a robot, but I realized that feeling stuff is actually part of what makes us human, even when it’s overwhelming. Finding a way to be true to yourself without always bending for others takes time, but it’s worth figuring out. You don’t have to feel like you’re constantly sacrificing your own peace.
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
SF Supporter
#4
I feel like I’m treading water but the water is mud. I can’t dump everyone on everyone because not everyone is suited to hear what I have to say.
whenever someone disagrees with me, I feel as if I am the one always in the wrong and I am the one who always has to change. Because if I don’t, I’m the one that will lose friends. Or other relationships.

I wish I were like Mr. Spock of Star Trek. He never felt anything and he never let emotions get the better of him. Maybe that would be better. I’m tried of feeling this way; I’m tired of feeling, period.
i'm sorry that things are so tough right now. please feel free to use my inbox to talk/vent about anything

mike....*hug*shake
 

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