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K thought I’d make the reply about the other things a “separate post” since the above one was already quite long. I hope your shoulder is feeling better now Witty, or at the very least, not worse.

Ugh that sucks about the vision problems beginning in early to mid 40’s too, well I hope that won’t be a thing that ends up afflicting us Ya not looking forward to having to worry about those bloody mammograms either, and I agree about the getting older thing being fun (sarcasm obviously lol) :p

Lol I love all the memes you made, so fun, funny and awesome! 😃🥰❤️ Did you make the “You did it!” ones on imgflip? Just curious. I tried to make one on there but the text was dumb and not cooperating, maybe it would be easier to do on laptop instead of on phone though, not sure. Or I could always take the template of it and put the text in myself, seems like it might be a lot easier lol :p

Ok well just one last thing here, and this is to 1964dodge (Mike) - Congrats on your awesome award! 😃😂🤪😉😋 *claps* (lol) :p
PS - I agree about the weird thing too, being “normal” is not only overrated, but most of the time quite boring and dull!
Weird = way more fun
Normal/non-weird = Yawn, boring as hell (most of the time anyway, lol)

 

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Sorry to hear people have sometimes gotten annoyed if you care/worry about them, but please know that is definitely not a way I would ever react to you caring/worrying. Ya people can be strange about that kind of stuff sometimes, my theory about it is that maybe deep down they feel undeserving of being cared about or worried about. But who knows. It is most likely all kinds of diff reasons depending on the person, but ya it definitely doesn’t make much sense to me and is not a way I’d ever be (getting annoyed about it like that I mean). I agree that it’s what a good friend should do, and I always feel worried if someone is away, going through something or for lots of other reasons too.

Ok about her meaning with people who haven’t shown support/understanding throughout your life. Aw I’m so glad you see me as being someone who cares about how you feel because yes I absolutely do You’re so welcome for being one of those people though, and thank you for being one of those people for me too, it definitely means the world to me

Thank you for saying you’re here for me too if I ever need someone to talk to, that definitely also means a lot to me and helps me feel cared about and less alone in general too Aw I’m really sorry to hear you spiralled though, I definitely understand about that happening sometimes though. I am really glad that you weren’t feeling that way as much last night though that is great to read for sure.

Thanks for your kind, compassionate understanding about people sometimes being thankless to me. Ya I try to be understanding that they probably just grew up around people who were also like that so they just never really learned to have “good manners” or even to at least value having them. I’m so glad I was raised to always say please and thank you, and also that it kinda comes a bit naturally to me to “want” to show gratitude/thankfulness to people when they say/do something nice to me. I agree with what you said that it’s important to let people know they helped and that they matter/are important. Aw yup you are definitely great about helping others feel like they are appreciated and important. I mean it can be “said” which is great, but it can also be “shown” and I think both are quite important. It has sometimes been hard for me with people if they only do “one” of those things but not both, I try to be understanding about that too though of course.

I understand about sometimes going quiet/keeping to yourself, I think I maybe do that sometimes too. It isn’t usually to do with a “reaction” about what someone else did though, usually it is just due to my own need to recharge myself a bit. There are times I need that more than others. When it’s hot as hell out then that can definitely be one of those times lol. Ya if it’s not obvious by now, I kinda hate summer lol. I thought of changing my descriptive name to that, but don’t wanna be negative lol :p Anyway oops went off on a bloody tangent again lol, anyway I’m glad that even if you withdraw a bit sometimes that you still feel grateful/appreciate efforts others make to show support or even just to listen. I know I’ve said it before, but wow I wish so much that a LOT more people would think that same kind of way about it for sure. It breaks my heart that something so simple cannot be done a lot more often. Anyway don’t wanna get negative here, the end is thankfully in sight at least (not “the end of my life” but “the end of the bloody heat” lol) so I need to be feeling good/happy/grateful and relieved about that

That might be the case, although they don't have to mean about me caring, even if they think they don't deserve it. They can just tell me that instead of getting annoyed, otherwise I tend to think I'm doing something wrong. I'm glad that you are here to help me through things, and that I am able to do that for you as well. It definitely helps because it can get overwhelming trying to handle everything on your own.

I always try to be polite and thankful and it can be annoying when people aren't. I try to show that I care because sometimes words don't mean much. I've had people promise things and went back on that, so I feel like actions are more important in some cases. Lol yeah it can get hard to deal with when it is so hot. I usually get quiet if I am feeling too much, and yeah it's not always from someone in particular but more like things that have happened. I'm glad the heat is about to end, and no we don't want the end of your life or anyone else's, hopefully not for a long time at least.

 

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K thought I’d make the reply about the other things a “separate post” since the above one was already quite long. I hope your shoulder is feeling better now Witty, or at the very least, not worse.

Ugh that sucks about the vision problems beginning in early to mid 40’s too, well I hope that won’t be a thing that ends up afflicting us Ya not looking forward to having to worry about those bloody mammograms either, and I agree about the getting older thing being fun (sarcasm obviously lol) :p

Lol I love all the memes you made, so fun, funny and awesome! 😃🥰❤️ Did you make the “You did it!” ones on imgflip? Just curious. I tried to make one on there but the text was dumb and not cooperating, maybe it would be easier to do on laptop instead of on phone though, not sure. Or I could always take the template of it and put the text in myself, seems like it might be a lot easier lol :p

Ok well just one last thing here, and this is to 1964dodge (Mike) - Congrats on your awesome award! 😃😂🤪😉😋 *claps* (lol) :p
PS - I agree about the weird thing too, being “normal” is not only overrated, but most of the time quite boring and dull!
Weird = way more fun
Normal/non-weird = Yawn, boring as hell (most of the time anyway, lol)

It's still about the same which is kind of a pain. I'm not sure what is causing it, but I seem to have pain in my wrist and elbow as well. Now it's doing it even when I am at rest. It's hard to find any position to sleep in that doesn't bother it, and pain pills and massage didn't do much. I just hope it's something that's not going to get worse.

I do make them on imgflip, I always make them on here though so not sure if it's different on the phone. I hope that you will be able to get some that will work. There's lots of cool templates there so it always gives me ideas. I can use those award memes for so many things

 

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My friend from Norway was around earlier and we had the chance to video chat. That's always a lot of fun to do. My mom was joining in the conversation too and he was saying how sweet we both are, lol. He said he really wants to make the trip here and it would be great to spend time with us, so hopefully that can happen at some point.

 

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That might be the case, although they don't have to mean about me caring, even if they think they don't deserve it. They can just tell me that instead of getting annoyed, otherwise I tend to think I'm doing something wrong. I'm glad that you are here to help me through things, and that I am able to do that for you as well. It definitely helps because it can get overwhelming trying to handle everything on your own.

I always try to be polite and thankful and it can be annoying when people aren't. I try to show that I care because sometimes words don't mean much. I've had people promise things and went back on that, so I feel like actions are more important in some cases. Lol yeah it can get hard to deal with when it is so hot. I usually get quiet if I am feeling too much, and yeah it's not always from someone in particular but more like things that have happened. I'm glad the heat is about to end, and no we don't want the end of your life or anyone else's, hopefully not for a long time at least.

Ya, you’re definitely right that regardless of their own personal reasons/feeling like they don’t deserve it or whatever that it doesn’t give them the right to be mean. And yes exactly, they could just be honest and say “That’s nice of you, thank you, I don’t really feel like I deserve to be so worried/cared about like this” or something like that. Some people are just kinda lousy communicators for sure, another thing I very much hope will “vastly improve” over the coming decades. Anyway yes you’re quite right that if they don’t communicate that then you end up feeling like you did something wrong. Thanks for saying you’re glad I’m here to help you through things, I’m so glad and thankful that you are here to help me through things/care/listen as well Yup exactly like you said, it helps things be much less overwhelming for each other to not have to handle everything “by ourselves”.

Same here that I try hard to always be polite/thankful and that it can be annoying when people don’t seem to be able to grasp the importance of that. And yup same that I try to “show” I care along with saying it. Always want my “words and deeds” to match as much as they can. Same here with experiencing people promising things and then going back on it after. Sorry you can relate to the getting too hot thing, but glad to not be alone with that at least I understand about sometimes withdrawing if you are feeling “too much” I think sometimes I don’t even realize that it’s the case for me, but that can sometimes be part of why I am in need of a “recharge/alone time” too.

Lol thanks for saying that about being glad the heat’s about to end for me too that was so kind and caring of you to say Aw I’m glad you don’t want the end of my life or anyone else’s to be for a long time, me too for sure.

 

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Ya, you’re definitely right that regardless of their own personal reasons/feeling like they don’t deserve it or whatever that it doesn’t give them the right to be mean. And yes exactly, they could just be honest and say “That’s nice of you, thank you, I don’t really feel like I deserve to be so worried/cared about like this” or something like that. Some people are just kinda lousy communicators for sure, another thing I very much hope will “vastly improve” over the coming decades. Anyway yes you’re quite right that if they don’t communicate that then you end up feeling like you did something wrong. Thanks for saying you’re glad I’m here to help you through things, I’m so glad and thankful that you are here to help me through things/care/listen as well Yup exactly like you said, it helps things be much less overwhelming for each other to not have to handle everything “by ourselves”.

Same here that I try hard to always be polite/thankful and that it can be annoying when people don’t seem to be able to grasp the importance of that. And yup same that I try to “show” I care along with saying it. Always want my “words and deeds” to match as much as they can. Same here with experiencing people promising things and then going back on it after. Sorry you can relate to the getting too hot thing, but glad to not be alone with that at least I understand about sometimes withdrawing if you are feeling “too much” I think sometimes I don’t even realize that it’s the case for me, but that can sometimes be part of why I am in need of a “recharge/alone time” too.

Lol thanks for saying that about being glad the heat’s about to end for me too that was so kind and caring of you to say Aw I’m glad you don’t want the end of my life or anyone else’s to be for a long time, me too for sure.

Some people do have problems with communicating for sure, so I try to keep that in mind if they do something like that. But hopefully they can get better at it because sometimes it's hard to know what people are really thinking or feeling if they don't tell you. I have to remember I can rely on people when I'm having a hard time and not feel like I am annoying them. Sometimes it's good to recharge too, I do that at times if I really start to feel like everything is too much. There are times that people think I'm mad at them when I go quiet, but that's not the case at all.

I can only imagine what life will be like when we get older, hopefully things will be better and not worse. But I'm trying to stick around as long as I can anyway and not give up easily. Like when my mom was talking about how she would want to die, she said quickly and peacefully and not too drawn out. And I told my mom and friend that they could have a party for me when I die to celebrate my life. And I don't mean suicide there, just natural death. They said that I'm not going to go before them, so I guess I have to stick around for a while. lol

 

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It's still about the same which is kind of a pain. I'm not sure what is causing it, but I seem to have pain in my wrist and elbow as well. Now it's doing it even when I am at rest. It's hard to find any position to sleep in that doesn't bother it, and pain pills and massage didn't do much. I just hope it's something that's not going to get worse.

I do make them on imgflip, I always make them on here though so not sure if it's different on the phone. I hope that you will be able to get some that will work. There's lots of cool templates there so it always gives me ideas. I can use those award memes for so many things

Sorry to hear that about your shoulder, I really hope it will at least start to improve soon Sorry also to hear that the pain pills or even massage didn’t do much to help it either. I hope it at least won’t get worse either, perhaps seeing a doc about it would help if they had a solution about it.

Ok thanks for confirming about imgflip, I was pretty sure, and also that most recent (even more awesome omg love how it’s so colorful! Lol) one said “imgflip” in the corner in the tiniest text ever lol :p I will go on laptop later and make some, seems like quite a fun thing to do! I can see why you like making them so much, and aw no such thing as “too many” of them imo, especially when they are so fun like all the ones you’ve made are

Awesome about there being lotsa templates too, I definitely gotta go and check those out later Yup absolutely that they can be used for so many kinds of things, very awesome for sure! 🥰❤️😊

 

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Sorry to hear that about your shoulder, I really hope it will at least start to improve soon Sorry also to hear that the pain pills or even massage didn’t do much to help it either. I hope it at least won’t get worse either, perhaps seeing a doc about it would help if they had a solution about it.

Ok thanks for confirming about imgflip, I was pretty sure, and also that most recent (even more awesome omg love how it’s so colorful! Lol) one said “imgflip” in the corner in the tiniest text ever lol :p I will go on laptop later and make some, seems like quite a fun thing to do! I can see why you like making them so much, and aw no such thing as “too many” of them imo, especially when they are so fun like all the ones you’ve made are

Awesome about there being lotsa templates too, I definitely gotta go and check those out later Yup absolutely that they can be used for so many kinds of things, very awesome for sure! 🥰❤️😊

I don't know if it's from repetitive motion or what, but I'll get it checked out for sure if it doesn't get better soon. Oh yeah, I forgot they put a watermark on there lol. I just hope I don't get too obnoxious with them, but this doesn't impact the other threads anyway because it doesn't show up in new posts.

 

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Awesome about your friend and getting to do the vid chat with him. Love that your mom joined in too Love those cool memes you posted too, always so fun and awesome for sure! 🥰❤️😊😉

 

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My nephew said that my mom is great because she gives him money...I guess he's easy to please

 

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I can't help it, I'm lonely

 

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And no one will even notice if I leave

 

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Some people do have problems with communicating for sure, so I try to keep that in mind if they do something like that. But hopefully they can get better at it because sometimes it's hard to know what people are really thinking or feeling if they don't tell you. I have to remember I can rely on people when I'm having a hard time and not feel like I am annoying them. Sometimes it's good to recharge too, I do that at times if I really start to feel like everything is too much. There are times that people think I'm mad at them when I go quiet, but that's not the case at all.

I can only imagine what life will be like when we get older, hopefully things will be better and not worse. But I'm trying to stick around as long as I can anyway and not give up easily. Like when my mom was talking about how she would want to die, she said quickly and peacefully and not too drawn out. And I told my mom and friend that they could have a party for me when I die to celebrate my life. And I don't mean suicide there, just natural death. They said that I'm not going to go before them, so I guess I have to stick around for a while. lol

Yup, exactly about some people having problems with communicating. I'm glad you try to keep that in mind if they do things like that, me too for sure. Ya I agree about it being hard to know what people are really thinking or feeling if they don't tell you. I'm glad you try to remember you can rely on people when you're having a hard time and not feeling like you're annoying them. That can be a challenge for me too sometimes so you definitely aren't alone with struggling with remembering that sometimes. That's good you also take the time to recharge if you start to feel like everything is too much. I understand that when you go quiet that it doesn't mean you're mad.

Lol ya it is fun to imagine what life will be like when we get older. I feel the same about hoping things will be better and not worse. And also same for me with wanting to stick around as long as I can and not give up easily, I'm glad that's how you feel too Ya whenever I do die then I would probably prefer it be quick and peaceful and not drawn out too like how your mom said she'd want it to be too. I like the idea of the celebration of your life instead of it being a sad "funeral" type of situation. They seem so dreadfully sad, when my great-aunt died in 2018 we didn't do a funeral, just a "celebration of life" that was literally what they called it. I felt so bad cos I didn't cry at all, but I wasn't very "close" with her overall. Always kinda got the impression she didn't really like me and found me annoying, so maybe that was part of the "lack of closeness" lol. Anyway ok I'm glad you didn't mean suicide when you said it about whenever you are no longer alive, but just when it is a natural death. Lol aw well I am glad you will have to stick around for a while, it is comforting to think of that for sure!

I don't know if it's from repetitive motion or what, but I'll get it checked out for sure if it doesn't get better soon. Oh yeah, I forgot they put a watermark on there lol. I just hope I don't get too obnoxious with them, but this doesn't impact the other threads anyway because it doesn't show up in new posts.

Ok, glad you will get it checked out if it doesn't get better soon. I saw in your meme posts from yesterday that it was still bothering you, but I hope it's improved since then at least Aw no I don't feel like posting lotsa memes is obnoxious. Yup you're right that posting in the gameroom doesn't impact other threads cos of it not showing up in new posts.

And no one will even notice if I leave

Aw that's not true, cos I would! And I think lotsa others would notice and care too for sure

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Aw such cute kitties! Lol, love all the memes you've posted, too funny :p
PS - Hope doing 4 replies in 1 post wasn't too much, sorry if it was lol :p

 

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Yup, exactly about some people having problems with communicating. I'm glad you try to keep that in mind if they do things like that, me too for sure. Ya I agree about it being hard to know what people are really thinking or feeling if they don't tell you. I'm glad you try to remember you can rely on people when you're having a hard time and not feeling like you're annoying them. That can be a challenge for me too sometimes so you definitely aren't alone with struggling with remembering that sometimes. That's good you also take the time to recharge if you start to feel like everything is too much. I understand that when you go quiet that it doesn't mean you're mad.

Lol ya it is fun to imagine what life will be like when we get older. I feel the same about hoping things will be better and not worse. And also same for me with wanting to stick around as long as I can and not give up easily, I'm glad that's how you feel too Ya whenever I do die then I would probably prefer it be quick and peaceful and not drawn out too like how your mom said she'd want it to be too. I like the idea of the celebration of your life instead of it being a sad "funeral" type of situation. They seem so dreadfully sad, when my great-aunt died in 2018 we didn't do a funeral, just a "celebration of life" that was literally what they called it. I felt so bad cos I didn't cry at all, but I wasn't very "close" with her overall. Always kinda got the impression she didn't really like me and found me annoying, so maybe that was part of the "lack of closeness" lol. Anyway ok I'm glad you didn't mean suicide when you said it about whenever you are no longer alive, but just when it is a natural death. Lol aw well I am glad you will have to stick around for a while, it is comforting to think of that for sure!


Ok, glad you will get it checked out if it doesn't get better soon. I saw in your meme posts from yesterday that it was still bothering you, but I hope it's improved since then at least Aw no I don't feel like posting lotsa memes is obnoxious. Yup you're right that posting in the gameroom doesn't impact other threads cos of it not showing up in new posts.


Aw that's not true, cos I would! And I think lotsa others would notice and care too for sure


Aw such cute kitties! Lol, love all the memes you've posted, too funny :p
PS - Hope doing 4 replies in 1 post wasn't too much, sorry if it was lol :p

It's good to be able to come here and talk and know that people will listen and care, so I'm never really alone in that regard. Not sure what I would do without the site to be honest, because I've met some great people through here. And it helps that people really understand where you are coming from because they have gone through similar experiences. It will be nice to be around for a while and just see what happens and what inventions and things will come out in the future. I wonder if we'll see flying cars and stuff in our lifetime but who knows. Aww thanks, just felt lonely the other day I guess and then I posted that stuff but I'm doing ok now. No, that's not too many at all, look how much I post after all. Yeah my nephew sent that pic, he said the cats were kissing and cuddling and that it was romantic.