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Omg, I’m so sorry to hear about the complication with your family friend Witty, that is terrible 
I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m not sure what else to say except I’m here for you if you want to talk about it.
I understand it’s a lot to process right now though, all those details of where your nephew will go, and the kitties too, will definitely all get worked out though. I know it’s hard not to worry about those though, I would be too for sure. They are lucky to have you and others who care and who will do everything they can to help though, it sounds like they’ll all be needing your strength more than ever
MrB’s advice of taking good care of yourself and believing that you’ll get through this is truly excellent, so I “second” that for sure.
Big hugs of comfort, reassurance and condolences to you
I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m not sure what else to say except I’m here for you if you want to talk about it.I understand it’s a lot to process right now though, all those details of where your nephew will go, and the kitties too, will definitely all get worked out though. I know it’s hard not to worry about those though, I would be too for sure. They are lucky to have you and others who care and who will do everything they can to help though, it sounds like they’ll all be needing your strength more than ever
MrB’s advice of taking good care of yourself and believing that you’ll get through this is truly excellent, so I “second” that for sure.
Big hugs of comfort, reassurance and condolences to you
It hasn't even been a day and they already took my nephew away from my sister. They didn't tell her outright they were doing that and showed up. He was crying and begging to stay with her and they took him anyway. He's staying with a teacher of his, not sure how they decided that, but it's very random. And they said my sister needs to work on herself, they've been saying that for years and no matter what she does, it's not good enough for them. Now this teacher is making him go to school tomorrow, and I feel like he should have at least a few days off to process this. Like my sister said, he doesn't even have time to grieve. And if she can't get him back, he ends up with a stranger.
This makes me want to drink, but I know all it will do is make me sick. But I still want a way to forget. My mom said life is always changing, but I want it to get better for once, not worse.
Thank you, that’s kind of you to say I’m sorry you have those kinds of thoughts sometimes too, and that they’ve been more prominent lately too. Glad you are trying to not let them go too far, and I can definitely understand feeling a bit hopeless about things since I sometimes feel that way too, but I have a feeling things will turn out better than we can see/imagine right now. I’m definitely always wishing and hoping for the best for both of us anyway.
You’re welcome for the support, I’d hardly be a very good friend if I didn’t at least offer that. Oh wow, sorry to hear about the 17 year old grand-niece, ya that would be quite hard for her to do it all on her own. I’m so sorry to hear that about the cats too, that doesn’t seem right at all. I mean I don’t know the situation with the house of course, but assuming it’d be passed down to the grand-niece then I can’t see why she couldn’t just stay living there with those cats, and have another family member or “guardian” of some kind help with things. But guessing it must be more complicated than that, and if so then ya I am really sorry to hear that. I’m sure every possible effort will be made to ensure those sweet kitties get good homes to go to
Sorry to hear your mom first said she’d take one of the kitties in but now seems like she’s changing her mind about it. Hopefully she’ll change it back again so you’ll be able to have one of them, that’d be awesome for sure. Oh wow sorry to hear about the things going on with your nephew too, that all sounds quite stressful. Ya I agree that he should get to stay home from school for at least a few days (if not a week or 2!) that doesn’t seem right to me either. I hope he’ll be able to stay with your sis, seems odd that they won’t let her have him.
I understand about it making you feel like you want to drink, but glad you’re also able to see that it wouldn’t truly “help” and would only make things worse. I’m not sure what else to say except that I hope things will get better soon.
I’m sorry you have those kinds of thoughts sometimes too, and that they’ve been more prominent lately too. Glad you are trying to not let them go too far, and I can definitely understand feeling a bit hopeless about things since I sometimes feel that way too, but I have a feeling things will turn out better than we can see/imagine right now. I’m definitely always wishing and hoping for the best for both of us anyway.You’re welcome for the support, I’d hardly be a very good friend if I didn’t at least offer that. Oh wow, sorry to hear about the 17 year old grand-niece, ya that would be quite hard for her to do it all on her own. I’m so sorry to hear that about the cats too, that doesn’t seem right at all. I mean I don’t know the situation with the house of course, but assuming it’d be passed down to the grand-niece then I can’t see why she couldn’t just stay living there with those cats, and have another family member or “guardian” of some kind help with things. But guessing it must be more complicated than that, and if so then ya I am really sorry to hear that. I’m sure every possible effort will be made to ensure those sweet kitties get good homes to go to
Sorry to hear your mom first said she’d take one of the kitties in but now seems like she’s changing her mind about it. Hopefully she’ll change it back again so you’ll be able to have one of them, that’d be awesome for sure. Oh wow sorry to hear about the things going on with your nephew too, that all sounds quite stressful. Ya I agree that he should get to stay home from school for at least a few days (if not a week or 2!) that doesn’t seem right to me either. I hope he’ll be able to stay with your sis, seems odd that they won’t let her have him.
I understand about it making you feel like you want to drink, but glad you’re also able to see that it wouldn’t truly “help” and would only make things worse. I’m not sure what else to say except that I hope things will get better soon.
Thank you, that’s kind of you to say I’m sorry you have those kinds of thoughts sometimes too, and that they’ve been more prominent lately too. Glad you are trying to not let them go too far, and I can definitely understand feeling a bit hopeless about things since I sometimes feel that way too, but I have a feeling things will turn out better than we can see/imagine right now. I’m definitely always wishing and hoping for the best for both of us anyway.
You’re welcome for the support, I’d hardly be a very good friend if I didn’t at least offer that. Oh wow, sorry to hear about the 17 year old grand-niece, ya that would be quite hard for her to do it all on her own. I’m so sorry to hear that about the cats too, that doesn’t seem right at all. I mean I don’t know the situation with the house of course, but assuming it’d be passed down to the grand-niece then I can’t see why she couldn’t just stay living there with those cats, and have another family member or “guardian” of some kind help with things. But guessing it must be more complicated than that, and if so then ya I am really sorry to hear that. I’m sure every possible effort will be made to ensure those sweet kitties get good homes to go to
Sorry to hear your mom first said she’d take one of the kitties in but now seems like she’s changing her mind about it. Hopefully she’ll change it back again so you’ll be able to have one of them, that’d be awesome for sure. Oh wow sorry to hear about the things going on with your nephew too, that all sounds quite stressful. Ya I agree that he should get to stay home from school for at least a few days (if not a week or 2!) that doesn’t seem right to me either. I hope he’ll be able to stay with your sis, seems odd that they won’t let her have him.
I understand about it making you feel like you want to drink, but glad you’re also able to see that it wouldn’t truly “help” and would only make things worse. I’m not sure what else to say except that I hope things will get better soon.
I’m sorry you have those kinds of thoughts sometimes too, and that they’ve been more prominent lately too. Glad you are trying to not let them go too far, and I can definitely understand feeling a bit hopeless about things since I sometimes feel that way too, but I have a feeling things will turn out better than we can see/imagine right now. I’m definitely always wishing and hoping for the best for both of us anyway.You’re welcome for the support, I’d hardly be a very good friend if I didn’t at least offer that. Oh wow, sorry to hear about the 17 year old grand-niece, ya that would be quite hard for her to do it all on her own. I’m so sorry to hear that about the cats too, that doesn’t seem right at all. I mean I don’t know the situation with the house of course, but assuming it’d be passed down to the grand-niece then I can’t see why she couldn’t just stay living there with those cats, and have another family member or “guardian” of some kind help with things. But guessing it must be more complicated than that, and if so then ya I am really sorry to hear that. I’m sure every possible effort will be made to ensure those sweet kitties get good homes to go to
Sorry to hear your mom first said she’d take one of the kitties in but now seems like she’s changing her mind about it. Hopefully she’ll change it back again so you’ll be able to have one of them, that’d be awesome for sure. Oh wow sorry to hear about the things going on with your nephew too, that all sounds quite stressful. Ya I agree that he should get to stay home from school for at least a few days (if not a week or 2!) that doesn’t seem right to me either. I hope he’ll be able to stay with your sis, seems odd that they won’t let her have him.
I understand about it making you feel like you want to drink, but glad you’re also able to see that it wouldn’t truly “help” and would only make things worse. I’m not sure what else to say except that I hope things will get better soon.
Same here in a way, trying to hold onto the “good” parts of visit with sis from Fri-yesterday eve (really glad it was only 2 days now for sure) but ya I’m starting to wonder if she hates me or something. She definitely seems to get a bit disrespectful sometimes for sure so that is confusing. I don’t ever get like that to her, and would never want to either since we don’t see her much anyway. Better to just keep things positive and supportive imo. Anyway, whatever. I’m sorry things got bad and that it’s hard to have hope now though, I definitely understand about that though and it’s kinda the same for me in a way (diff. circumstances of course, but I too have been suffering a loss since last June with my sis). I hope it’ll get better for us eventually too, and I’m sure it will, somehow 
Ok, I understand about the teen girl not being able to afford to stay in the house, but ya hopefully something will be able to be worked out with that. Sorry to hear about the landlord in your place having that $100/month pet deposit just for having a pet in your building, that’s not cool or right at all imo. We have only ever had to pay a “one time” pet deposit in the places we’ve lived, guess it’s different everywhere though. I hope you’ll be able to get a kitty in the future too. I hope things are going well with your sis and nephew too.
Love all those pics you posted too, that’s a cool Jurassic Park bag your nephew got for you, and that other nice stuff too, you were an adorable kid, and that’s a pretty cup too
Ok, I understand about the teen girl not being able to afford to stay in the house, but ya hopefully something will be able to be worked out with that. Sorry to hear about the landlord in your place having that $100/month pet deposit just for having a pet in your building, that’s not cool or right at all imo. We have only ever had to pay a “one time” pet deposit in the places we’ve lived, guess it’s different everywhere though. I hope you’ll be able to get a kitty in the future too. I hope things are going well with your sis and nephew too.
Love all those pics you posted too, that’s a cool Jurassic Park bag your nephew got for you, and that other nice stuff too, you were an adorable kid, and that’s a pretty cup too
Same here in a way, trying to hold onto the “good” parts of visit with sis from Fri-yesterday eve (really glad it was only 2 days now for sure) but ya I’m starting to wonder if she hates me or something. She definitely seems to get a bit disrespectful sometimes for sure so that is confusing. I don’t ever get like that to her, and would never want to either since we don’t see her much anyway. Better to just keep things positive and supportive imo. Anyway, whatever. I’m sorry things got bad and that it’s hard to have hope now though, I definitely understand about that though and it’s kinda the same for me in a way (diff. circumstances of course, but I too have been suffering a loss since last June with my sis). I hope it’ll get better for us eventually too, and I’m sure it will, somehow
Ok, I understand about the teen girl not being able to afford to stay in the house, but ya hopefully something will be able to be worked out with that. Sorry to hear about the landlord in your place having that $100/month pet deposit just for having a pet in your building, that’s not cool or right at all imo. We have only ever had to pay a “one time” pet deposit in the places we’ve lived, guess it’s different everywhere though. I hope you’ll be able to get a kitty in the future too. I hope things are going well with your sis and nephew too.
Love all those pics you posted too, that’s a cool Jurassic Park bag your nephew got for you, and that other nice stuff too, you were an adorable kid, and that’s a pretty cup too
Ok, I understand about the teen girl not being able to afford to stay in the house, but ya hopefully something will be able to be worked out with that. Sorry to hear about the landlord in your place having that $100/month pet deposit just for having a pet in your building, that’s not cool or right at all imo. We have only ever had to pay a “one time” pet deposit in the places we’ve lived, guess it’s different everywhere though. I hope you’ll be able to get a kitty in the future too. I hope things are going well with your sis and nephew too.
Love all those pics you posted too, that’s a cool Jurassic Park bag your nephew got for you, and that other nice stuff too, you were an adorable kid, and that’s a pretty cup too
Well all of the cats were taken to the shelter. I know she was talking about keeping a few of them, but her family decided it wasn't a good idea. And they probably have final say since she isn't an adult yet. But it still sucks, and I can only hope they all go to loving homes. It's hard to think I won't ever see them again. My mom was crying a few times about it and I haven't been feeling good about it either. And my sister said my nephew might not be back until summer, but that's not a guarantee either. It just feels like everything is going to shit.