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BPD Support Thread
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Or more precisely, my ex-(female) partner dumped because I was a mental health burden, and really physically ill to boot. She cheated on me (I only found that out a couple of months ago) with a girl I met at the emergency psych ward, (I've saved HER life twice) dumped me on New Year's Day, and made one of my best friends keep their relationship a secret for 2 years. So yeah, I'm a real fucking winner, and really worth dating. NOT.
I'm just fucking trash. And I've had to put up with my addict bf all day, while he chases drugs.
No offense meant or implied to you, Aurelia, or anyone else. I'm certainly not calling you an addict, or condemning anything about you. Not my place. I hope the above didn't sound rude. Most of us have addictions in one form or another. I should probably just shut up now, because I really don't want to offend anyone. Hope I haven't put my foot in my mouth...
No offense meant or implied to you, Aurelia, or anyone else. I'm certainly not calling you an addict, or condemning anything about you. Not my place. I hope the above didn't sound rude. Most of us have addictions in one form or another. I should probably just shut up now, because I really don't want to offend anyone. Hope I haven't put my foot in my mouth...
I just don't feel like much of a prize I guess 
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@Aurelia I was actually dreaming about side pieces last night, this morning
half awake style.
I feel like you are a prize. I think anyone who gets together with you will be lucky to have your care, thoughtfulness, honesty, generosity and loyalty. To me those are the most important foundation for any sort of relationship.
@Aurelia I was actually dreaming about side pieces last night, this morning half awake style.
@Aurelia I was actually dreaming about side pieces last night, this morning
half awake style.
I feel like you are a prize. I think anyone who gets together with you will be lucky to have your care, thoughtfulness, honesty, generosity and loyalty. To me those are the most important foundation for any sort of relationship.
@Aurelia I was actually dreaming about side pieces last night, this morning half awake style.
@Aurelia I was actually dreaming about side pieces last night, this morning
half awake style.
I feel sure I've written this before... well maybe not this exact scenario but still.
I had a friend. We worked together for a while and eventually she became a friend of mine. Despite a real age difference we were real friends. She is someone I would call up who could tell me what's considered to be normal behaviour and what isn't- in those around me. I have no frame of reference to know whether what people do is problematic or normal... she'd call me too for advice, to share, or ask my opinions - which I was always baffled at her asking my advice.
Over the past year or two when we worked with each other less and her life became busier she wasn't there for me at all. Recently I realised that however much I would like our friendship to exist because she is someone I used to be able to turn to, it just doesn't. If I was in trouble and needed someone to come over, she wouldn't. (Is that necessarily a barometer? To me it is). So she's not a friend.
Now recently I texted her a technical question and she called me to answer. And we ended up talking for a while. And it's just, weird. For, she's not a friend. She can't suddenly act like she is. It's just weird for yeah it's either one or the other and this was neither. (She's not a friend).
Just to clarify. I'm not asking for advice. Just deciding to write it down.
I had a friend. We worked together for a while and eventually she became a friend of mine. Despite a real age difference we were real friends. She is someone I would call up who could tell me what's considered to be normal behaviour and what isn't- in those around me. I have no frame of reference to know whether what people do is problematic or normal... she'd call me too for advice, to share, or ask my opinions - which I was always baffled at her asking my advice.
Over the past year or two when we worked with each other less and her life became busier she wasn't there for me at all. Recently I realised that however much I would like our friendship to exist because she is someone I used to be able to turn to, it just doesn't. If I was in trouble and needed someone to come over, she wouldn't. (Is that necessarily a barometer? To me it is). So she's not a friend.
Now recently I texted her a technical question and she called me to answer. And we ended up talking for a while. And it's just, weird. For, she's not a friend. She can't suddenly act like she is. It's just weird for yeah it's either one or the other and this was neither. (She's not a friend).
Just to clarify. I'm not asking for advice. Just deciding to write it down.
