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BPD Support Thread
- Thread starter Aurelia
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Nah, fuck that. I get that psychologically any of us could've ended up like them. But it's possible to have a problem and recognize it as a problem that needs to be treated. They never will, and imo whether that's a symptom or not matters little. Narcs don't rehabilitate. They abuse, and continue abusing until you wise up and leave or do something about it, then they move on to the next victim.
Maybe my past makes me too bitter to feel sympathy, but they don't deserve it anyway.
Maybe my past makes me too bitter to feel sympathy, but they don't deserve it anyway.
Someone mentioned virtual DBT classes. I took one via Zoom that my therapist ran with a couple other therapists. There were like 10 of us in the class for 20 weeks. It was intense, but it was really good. I should have taken it twice though.
Also, being drawn to the skinny girl with piercings and tats. That's so great to read about. I used to be that person, so it's really sad that I'm not the person that anyone is drawn to anymore. I got older and bigger and now I'm more depressed and isolated because of it. This society is all about skinny women and how hot skinny girls are. The rest of us are fucked, locked in our houses. Ex-rockstars are made to feel like shit. We have to be ashamed when we leave the house or be seen in public. Once you're unfuckable you have no reason to be alive. ...that's what it feels like anyway. And you don't even have to be 600lbs. I'm talking about just a little bit chunky. Suddenly your life is over. It's so fucked up.
No one "sees" your past, your experience, what once made you cool, or that made you still might be cool if you got to know them. No one wants to get to know you because you're "fat."
It's so fun to live in Hot Skinny Girl culture. Try living in LA for a minute. S'fun.
Also, being drawn to the skinny girl with piercings and tats. That's so great to read about. I used to be that person, so it's really sad that I'm not the person that anyone is drawn to anymore. I got older and bigger and now I'm more depressed and isolated because of it. This society is all about skinny women and how hot skinny girls are. The rest of us are fucked, locked in our houses. Ex-rockstars are made to feel like shit. We have to be ashamed when we leave the house or be seen in public. Once you're unfuckable you have no reason to be alive. ...that's what it feels like anyway. And you don't even have to be 600lbs. I'm talking about just a little bit chunky. Suddenly your life is over. It's so fucked up.
No one "sees" your past, your experience, what once made you cool, or that made you still might be cool if you got to know them. No one wants to get to know you because you're "fat."
It's so fun to live in Hot Skinny Girl culture. Try living in LA for a minute. S'fun.
Lol, got a job advertisement from Indeed in my email about a care coordinator for a detox/rehab center.
Requirements:
Bachelors or Associates degree.
Me: Check.
Must be able to sit and stand for extended periods of time. Must be able to bend, stoop, and kneel with ease. Requires walking and standing often.
Me: Check.
Must be able to express and exchange ideas by means of the spoken word. Communicating fluently and effectively both verbally and in writing in English.
Me: Check.
Emotional stability necessary to perform essential functions.
Me: Welp...I'm out.
Requirements:
Bachelors or Associates degree.
Me: Check.
Must be able to sit and stand for extended periods of time. Must be able to bend, stoop, and kneel with ease. Requires walking and standing often.
Me: Check.
Must be able to express and exchange ideas by means of the spoken word. Communicating fluently and effectively both verbally and in writing in English.
Me: Check.
Emotional stability necessary to perform essential functions.
Me: Welp...I'm out.
