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Family consequences
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Coming from a person who's brother took his own life in 2007, you never get over it. There is the guilt of thinking that the family member could have done something to prevent it from happening, to feelings of pissed off that the person who took their own life didn't care or love the family and was selfish in his/her actions. I personally do not think that I will ever get past it because I should have been there for my baby brother. The guilt that I carry is unreal, I would not wish it on anyone.
Do you have a therapist that you can talk to, a best friend, someone in our family that you can trust? If you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to send me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I get the message.
Please take gentle care of yourself.
Do you have a therapist that you can talk to, a best friend, someone in our family that you can trust? If you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to send me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I get the message.
Please take gentle care of yourself.
If you are bored out of head all day every day then there are a LOT of fixes - it is not difficult to find ways to spend time productively and if you were to do that then you would likely find that all this extra time sitting around thinking would dissipate and lots of things could improve. Being bored is not a result of not having anything to do - itis the result of choosing not to do anything and then claiming that it is unbearable when in fact it is a decison to do absolutely nothing.
Hey Bruces,
The reality is your family will be without you and most likely won't be able to cope or ever recover. They will need a lot of help and support. I am not guilt tripping you, just saying the cold hard facts.
If you are very bored with life like the poster above me said there are so many things you can do. Whatever area you are in, look up on the net what is available there to do in your area...please do not go through with this. One day in my life that I regret so bad was saying this IS IT and days later woke up from a coma, I have been in pain since. Since then I've realized just how much people who know me well really do like me and care for me, I was overwhelmed with happiness when I finally was finished with therapy and the medications were working.
Your life can change, only you can do it...we will be here to support you x
The reality is your family will be without you and most likely won't be able to cope or ever recover. They will need a lot of help and support. I am not guilt tripping you, just saying the cold hard facts.
If you are very bored with life like the poster above me said there are so many things you can do. Whatever area you are in, look up on the net what is available there to do in your area...please do not go through with this. One day in my life that I regret so bad was saying this IS IT and days later woke up from a coma, I have been in pain since. Since then I've realized just how much people who know me well really do like me and care for me, I was overwhelmed with happiness when I finally was finished with therapy and the medications were working.
Your life can change, only you can do it...we will be here to support you x
I am one of those people(for most cases), there is always options, things you can do to change yourself or circumstances. I've just come back from my G.P and she is referring me to group therapy,I was amazed she had never heard of DBT and some others but there is always something you will not have tried. Do not give up hope, it always exists. If you want to share where you live I can try and help you find resources in your area.
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