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Jim's Café - 13th of September
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@Auri
Thanks for the tag. For the moment, I can answer only questions #2 and #5.
As far as Superstition, there is the saying "One man's superstition is another man's religion," so I always try to show respect for other beliefs. In my case, I can speak from actual experience as to what happened to me. I remember one day I was taking a leisurely stroll in the downtown area and ran across a shop that had newly opened. It was an occult shop, and on its window were announcements of when various Psychic readers were doing readings. There were Palm-readers, Tarot-readers, and even psychics who could tell you about your previous reincarnations and how reincarnation affects your present life. Normally a customer would have to make reservations, but the lady at the counter said a Tarot-reader just happened to be there, so I did not need to reserve but could get the reading right then and there if I wished. Before I could say anything, she called out the Tarot-reader who came out from the back room. There were two rates--a 15 minute reading cost $35, and an hour reading cost $50. At first,I hesitated, because I was already doing well financially. But then I realized my social life was lacking, so I thought that would be a good question for the tarot lady to tackle. So I accepted, and we went into the back-room for the tarot.
Now, as some of you already know, I stay away from emotional attachments. After all, two of my closest friends had died, so to prevent that emotional agony from happening again, I don't really want to have friends at all. So instead of friends, I prefer only acquaintances. I made that point clear to the reader. Anyway, her tarot showed that I would get a very good Relationship in a few months. And she sounded so sure of herself too. She even said I would marry that person.
Well, I met that person, and I'm 100% happy about it. But let me make it clear that it's not romantic at all. In fact, I don't want it to be at all, because, as I said, I practice Non-attachment. But let me emphasize that this person, even though not a friend, is even better than a friend. Contradictory as it sounds, sometimes an acquaintance can be better than a friend. So that also answers your question #5 about friends. Because even if that person leaves me and I never see her again, it won't affect me, because she is just an Acquaintance-- yet she's done so much for me. I know it sounds strange to you, but this makes me 100% happy. And as long as I'm happy, that's what matters, yes?
So the Tarot-reader was Wrong about the marriage idea. Totally wrong on that, because I don't even want any romantic relationship at all. But she nailed it right on target about me finding a person who makes me happy. And it happened within the two or three months which the reader had predicted. I'd say my $35 was well-spent, don't you think?
Thanks for the tag. For the moment, I can answer only questions #2 and #5.
As far as Superstition, there is the saying "One man's superstition is another man's religion," so I always try to show respect for other beliefs. In my case, I can speak from actual experience as to what happened to me. I remember one day I was taking a leisurely stroll in the downtown area and ran across a shop that had newly opened. It was an occult shop, and on its window were announcements of when various Psychic readers were doing readings. There were Palm-readers, Tarot-readers, and even psychics who could tell you about your previous reincarnations and how reincarnation affects your present life. Normally a customer would have to make reservations, but the lady at the counter said a Tarot-reader just happened to be there, so I did not need to reserve but could get the reading right then and there if I wished. Before I could say anything, she called out the Tarot-reader who came out from the back room. There were two rates--a 15 minute reading cost $35, and an hour reading cost $50. At first,I hesitated, because I was already doing well financially. But then I realized my social life was lacking, so I thought that would be a good question for the tarot lady to tackle. So I accepted, and we went into the back-room for the tarot.
Now, as some of you already know, I stay away from emotional attachments. After all, two of my closest friends had died, so to prevent that emotional agony from happening again, I don't really want to have friends at all. So instead of friends, I prefer only acquaintances. I made that point clear to the reader. Anyway, her tarot showed that I would get a very good Relationship in a few months. And she sounded so sure of herself too. She even said I would marry that person.
Well, I met that person, and I'm 100% happy about it. But let me make it clear that it's not romantic at all. In fact, I don't want it to be at all, because, as I said, I practice Non-attachment. But let me emphasize that this person, even though not a friend, is even better than a friend. Contradictory as it sounds, sometimes an acquaintance can be better than a friend. So that also answers your question #5 about friends. Because even if that person leaves me and I never see her again, it won't affect me, because she is just an Acquaintance-- yet she's done so much for me. I know it sounds strange to you, but this makes me 100% happy. And as long as I'm happy, that's what matters, yes?
So the Tarot-reader was Wrong about the marriage idea. Totally wrong on that, because I don't even want any romantic relationship at all. But she nailed it right on target about me finding a person who makes me happy. And it happened within the two or three months which the reader had predicted. I'd say my $35 was well-spent, don't you think?
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
It could be highly relative. Some people prefer to engage with the world events no matter how stressing, however once my aunt once told me to chill. Every end of the day think of how I am gonna dress myself or what I am gonna eat tomorrow. Slow down and enjoy myself.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
Idk, wouldn't it be Harry Potter's magic abilities? lol. I certainly have no stories like that.
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start? I finished a book 2 weeks ago, it was called "When Breath Becomes Air" about a neurosurgeon who was diagnosed with cancer himself. It depressed me a bit so I am taking a break from books for a while.
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now? That my parents are supportive enough, that I can start over with my academic studies perhaps.
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
They do mean a lot to me even if I am not expressive enough <3
It could be highly relative. Some people prefer to engage with the world events no matter how stressing, however once my aunt once told me to chill. Every end of the day think of how I am gonna dress myself or what I am gonna eat tomorrow. Slow down and enjoy myself.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
Idk, wouldn't it be Harry Potter's magic abilities? lol. I certainly have no stories like that.
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start? I finished a book 2 weeks ago, it was called "When Breath Becomes Air" about a neurosurgeon who was diagnosed with cancer himself. It depressed me a bit so I am taking a break from books for a while.
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now? That my parents are supportive enough, that I can start over with my academic studies perhaps.
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
They do mean a lot to me even if I am not expressive enough <3
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
Don't let anyone treat you less than you deserve.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
I'm not too superstitious, but I've had experience with spirits before.
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
Been reading a book called "The Brightsiders" for a while now. Also been reading stories on the Chapters app, including my own.
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
I'm happy for friends and family.
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
All the people I'm close to mean so much to me.
Don't let anyone treat you less than you deserve.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
I'm not too superstitious, but I've had experience with spirits before.
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
Been reading a book called "The Brightsiders" for a while now. Also been reading stories on the Chapters app, including my own.
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
I'm happy for friends and family.
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
All the people I'm close to mean so much to me.
A day late...but thanks for opening & the tag @Auri...
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
You is kind, you is smart, you is important from the movie The Help
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
I think the supernatural encompasses a variety of things - from unnerving premonitions to deja-vu events , as for superstitions though not a true believer I find them interesting and often wonder how they got started
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
Just finished While Justice Sleeps by Stacy Abrams... a good read. Have on my table Archeology from Space by Sarah Parcak which want to start to read...
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
Today like everyday is a gift so live in the present moment to the fullest (easier said than done-lol). At moment grateful for watching the sun rise with the beginnings of the rosy pink sky intermingled with pale blue...
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
To all my friends here on SF...couldn't have made it this far without your support, advice, hugs and encouragement... and a reminder to myself to do the same for those in irl-so thank you for that @Auri
It is also Happy Cat Month, so I invited a few fluffy friends to the Café...
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
You is kind, you is smart, you is important from the movie The Help
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
I think the supernatural encompasses a variety of things - from unnerving premonitions to deja-vu events , as for superstitions though not a true believer I find them interesting and often wonder how they got started
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
Just finished While Justice Sleeps by Stacy Abrams... a good read. Have on my table Archeology from Space by Sarah Parcak which want to start to read...
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
Today like everyday is a gift so live in the present moment to the fullest (easier said than done-lol). At moment grateful for watching the sun rise with the beginnings of the rosy pink sky intermingled with pale blue...
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
To all my friends here on SF...couldn't have made it this far without your support, advice, hugs and encouragement... and a reminder to myself to do the same for those in irl-so thank you for that @Auri
It is also Happy Cat Month, so I invited a few fluffy friends to the Café...
Thanks, @Auri & @JMG !
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
Every day is the first day of the rest of your life.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
It's sort of moot, as I've no idea what any of this existence really is. How can there be something supernatural beyond something I don't understand in the least anyway?
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
I used to, until COVID took the library. Now I just read things online and haven't gone back to paper books (yet?)
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
If the less you know, the better, I'm in a perfect position!
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
I'll add this to my list.
1. Fortune Cookie Day : What's your word of wisdom of the day? Write your own fortune cookie for SF members!
Every day is the first day of the rest of your life.
2. Supernatural Day and Defy Superstition Day : How do you define "supernatural"? Do you believe in anything supernatural? Do you believe in any superstitions? Share your stories!
It's sort of moot, as I've no idea what any of this existence really is. How can there be something supernatural beyond something I don't understand in the least anyway?
3. Read A New Book Month : Are you reading anything at the moment? Would you like to start?
I used to, until COVID took the library. Now I just read things online and haven't gone back to paper books (yet?)
4. Positive Thinking Day : Share your positive thought of the day. What simple things are you grateful for or happy about right now?
If the less you know, the better, I'm in a perfect position!
5. Friendship Month : Tell your friend(s) how much they mean to you, send them a message, spread some sunshine.
I'll add this to my list.