Some days are better than others...but when I say better, I mostly just mean "you're" numb or distracted....sometimes actually "fine", as you'd say after any casual "how are you" questions would pop up...but you've forgotten what being "happy" feels like, and you can't even recall if you ever were...what does it mean to be happy anyway? You don't know...but you try to act in a way you think happy people do...and maybe they even find you fun or funny...your "friends", but would they still be around if you weren't fun anymore? Most people would say "yeah, true friends would bla bla", but I'm pretty sure people usually take care of themselves first, and being around someone who has a "bad vibe", is depressed or whatever and you know they are, is "killing it"....but you're still too scared to be completely isolated, so even if you know your friends aren't really your friends, and it's all an act, a pathetic cling to something entirely fake, you keep in contact when you can, because the opposite is scary ...plus...you enjoy their company at times...the debates, maybe some fun moments... It's better than nothing.
Idk...I know some of you...maybe a lot of you would rather be alone then that, but felt like sharing anyway...even as a kid, I even prefered to be in bad company, then not have anyone to hang with, since it's not just about not being lonely, there's some weird sense of security that comes from it...at least the way I saw it...I wish I could have a real friend irl to confide in though... :/ But then again, I'd be too awkward with it anyway...
Meh...random. But if you can relate and/or plain want to talk about it...sure. Share your thoughts/experiences below.
..btw, it really kind of "hurts" sometimes though, lol...to have to fake it, and you/I still have this strange feeling/idea I'm giving myself away somehow, and my pal had a bad time because of it (a feeling of literally sucking out energy, and appearing tired when you're trying not to and such? did anyone have this feeling before?), just the pal is too nice/polite to mention it, and is letting it slip "this time"....idk. like I said once though, maybe, probably my imagination...unsure.
Idk...I know some of you...maybe a lot of you would rather be alone then that, but felt like sharing anyway...even as a kid, I even prefered to be in bad company, then not have anyone to hang with, since it's not just about not being lonely, there's some weird sense of security that comes from it...at least the way I saw it...I wish I could have a real friend irl to confide in though... :/ But then again, I'd be too awkward with it anyway...
Meh...random. But if you can relate and/or plain want to talk about it...sure. Share your thoughts/experiences below.
..btw, it really kind of "hurts" sometimes though, lol...to have to fake it, and you/I still have this strange feeling/idea I'm giving myself away somehow, and my pal had a bad time because of it (a feeling of literally sucking out energy, and appearing tired when you're trying not to and such? did anyone have this feeling before?), just the pal is too nice/polite to mention it, and is letting it slip "this time"....idk. like I said once though, maybe, probably my imagination...unsure.