BPD Support Thread

[Angie74]

Thank you. I can't seem to stop being critical of myself.

 

[Atreides]

Thank you. I can't seem to stop being critical of myself.

Sometimes we're hardest on ourselves. We have to learn to be kind to ourselves.

 

[dandelions]

Just wanted to mention that I joined and attended a BPD meetup. There was discussion and mention of resources. Of course I was a bit reserved since I don't know the people but my initial impression was that it is a supportive group. I'll attend again. Just wanted to mention...

 

[Angie74]

That's cool.

 

[Atreides]

Just wanted to mention that I joined and attended a BPD meetup. There was discussion and mention of resources. Of course I was a bit reserved since I don't know the people but my initial impression was that it is a supportive group. I'll attend again. Just wanted to mention...

That's great. I hope it helps.

 

[Angie74]

My bf is back, and all he can do is criticize me. I feel like such a piece of shit.

 

[Atreides]

My bf is back, and all he can do is criticize me. I feel like such a piece of shit.

you're not a piece of shit.

 

[Aurelia]

My bf is back, and all he can do is criticize me. I feel like such a piece of shit.

Why can't you tell him to leave? Do you think he won't listen to you? What if you just waited until he went out and locked the door and didn't let him back in?

 

[Angie74]

I'm trying to kick him out. He won't go, or accept the fact that I'm breaking up with him. Claims he has nowhere to go now. Don't know what to do. All we do is fight, he won't stop putting me down, and he won't listen when I tell him to go. If I call cops, they will probably arrest because of warrants.

 

[Champagne]

If I call cops, they will probably arrest because of warrants.

Arrest you or him, if its him, let them arrest him. He has no right to be abusive to you (other post) and if he has nowhere to go then he should have thought of that before he decided to treat you with abuse.

 

[Sunspots]

He's in a bad mood again and I'm freaking out. I don't know what I've done wrong this time, I've asked him what's up and he just grunted "Nothing" but there's clearly something wrong. I cooked a lovely roast beef with all the trimmings and he sat there eating it in silence with a face like thunder.
Every time he does this it feels like the end of the world and I question whether it's all in my head, I'm being paranoid or what..

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

At what point can I ever just admit that I'm so damaged that no one wants to put up with me?

 

[Aurelia]

At what point can I ever just admit that I'm so damaged that no one wants to put up with me?

It doesn't seem that way to me, C. You're still interesting and fun to be around and talk to. Who cares about "damaged"? We're all damaged in one way or another.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

It doesn't seem that way to me, C. You're still interesting and fun to be around and talk to. Who cares about "damaged"? We're all damaged in one way or another.

It just seems to be too much for people to deal with, and I don't want it to be that way.

 

[Innocent Forever]

He's in a bad mood again and I'm freaking out. I don't know what I've done wrong this time, I've asked him what's up and he just grunted "Nothing" but there's clearly something wrong. I cooked a lovely roast beef with all the trimmings and he sat there eating it in silence with a face like thunder.
Every time he does this it feels like the end of the world and I question whether it's all in my head, I'm being paranoid or what..

It doesn't have to be you..... it could be him.

At what point can I ever just admit that I'm so damaged that no one wants to put up with me?

Never? You're not damaged beyond repair. You're awesome as you are...

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I'm tited of people thinking badly of me. From now on, I'll keep everything to myself. Even if my arm falls off, I'll say I'm fine.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I hate this illness, I just want it to leave me already.

 

[LonelyHiker]

((((((Witty))))))

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

((((((Witty))))))

Thank you for that

 

[ShatteredMind]

i feel worthless *blub