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  1. heydear12

    I Need Help About Helping A Friend...

    Hello Guys I haven't been here for some time now, it is good to be back fortunately I am not here seeking help for myself, I have a friend who is in clinical depression and have a serious hearth disease. She had this disease for a long time and combined with depression it has become life...
  2. B

    Some advice please

    Hello, I'm hoping that someone could give me some advice please. I regularly chat via email to a young man in the USA, we met online over a year ago on another mental health forum when I was suffering quite badly from anxiety and he had his own mental health problems. We just support each other...
  3. Beka

    BPD and romantic relationships

    Okay so I've come a long way in my recovery of BPD and I'm always having these little 'epiphanies' about my behaviors. I've just had another one but I wanted to know if anyone else has had the same issue or has any advice on how to combat it. So I've come to the realization that I've only ever...
  4. J

    Birthdays, Depression and Suicide - How to cope up?

    Does anyone feel anxious, more depressed, and tired in general during the upcoming days of their birthday? My birthday is coming up in a couple days and I have no idea how to cope with it. I have this crippling fear in my heart regarding my future and I just can't bear to be present on my...
  5. Bl00dStaindSn0w

    Fear of being kicked out

    Legally I am an adult, but considering what I have been through there should be some sort of valid excuse for staying this long. I was raised by an emotionally neglectful father who also used emotional abuse in order to punish me for normal mistakes. If I happened to drop a glass cup that is...
  6. Oliver A.

    tourettes

    It’s been a long time since I’ve been on here. An official diagnosis can only happen after a year, until then it’s only called Transient Tic Disorder. But we think I have Tourettes. Anybody else dealing with this? Any advice or tips on handling embarrassment in public?
  7. madridland

    I need to tell my friends...

    2 of my friends are currently mad at me and and aren't talking with me. One is my roommate which makes it really hard. I'm really struggling and need help from my friends though but since their mad at me I feel like I can't bring my feelings of depression and thoughts of suicide up to them...
  8. Gb726

    I feel like I'm loosing my mind. HELP

    Currently I'm 22 years old. Mentally I feel, 67. Let's get down to it. At the age of four I remember this specific conversation I had with my cousins as they jokingly asked if I had a boyfriend considering I was only four. With excitement I said yes, my dad. They were confused and said no...
  9. Organicmaplesyurp

    Nothing Works...

    Hello everyone, I am new to this forum. I need advice that will actually work. Something I haven't heard before. I applogize if my post comes across as sounding snarky, I'm just tired and desperate. I have had clinical depression for several years. In this time, I have seen therapists, taken...
  10. Beka

    Partner's possible abusive ex

    Hey so it's been a really long time since I've felt the need to come here and post but I didn't know where else to ask for advice really. So he's not my partner but a new guy I'm seeing. It's been going pretty good, he's in the army so we've only been on one date and it was amazing, I've never...
  11. Prussia

    I want to move on but don't know how.

    Its been like 5 months since my ex dumped me and cut off literally all communication. It really took me by surprise so I have a lot of pent up thoughts and anger and stuff about it. I've been trying to vent it out or just distract myself from it but it's just as prominent as it was 5 months ago...
  12. FacelessDoll

    Is it normal for

    Hello I am new to the site, I had a relapse in cutting lately and I have a question that may sound stupid to others.... Is it normal for my skin to give off bad heat? No I do not mean the cuts and there stinging I mean burn as in when someone touches them the heat even bothers them. I recently...
  13. Prussia

    Making friends outside of school

    Hello all! I'll admit I'm not sure how to make friends now that I'm out of school. I've made a few friends at work but would love advice on finding new people who share my interests. I'm not a big drinker so not keen on hanging out at bars but not sure how else to meet people my age. My town is...
  14. Prussia

    Hope this is ok here...?

    I'm not entirely sure if this post fits under this thread or not but if it doesn't, please let me know where it should go (if anywhere) and I'll do the thing. I'm sorry it's super long in advance. Please skip it if you need sleep. Not sure how to start but I would really like some support and...
  15. K

    You guys know what this means?

    last monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me while she was walking over to throw something in the trash can. Then later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me &...
  16. MxsticMagix

    Just need some advice. Please.

    So. I kinda feel stupid writing this, like somebody is actually going to take an interest in helping me, but here I go anyway. Lets start with my life. I live a pretty good life actually. I'm part of a loving Christian family. The thing is, they're all homophobic. Every single person around me...
  17. memyselfand1

    My life my struggles

    n Hi All I am really stuck on to what to do with various situations in my life. Friday/Saturday On Friday i was at going to the art cafe (which i don’t really enjoy but i turn up for the cheap tea and coffee) and i was told by the nurse who runs it that due to my panic attack the previous...
  18. memyselfand1

    Things that work for/Things that don't work for me

    Things that work for me Scenarios Let's say I am having a bad day and feeling really fed up with daily life and are feeling really bored or feeling really low and depressed but have no urges to harm or anything serious. Then a range of distractions help to get through the period I am having...
  19. Ldub20

    Does anyone think this is GOOD advice?

    Advice: "so what if you are socially inept? Learn to be content with it and be happy that you'll always be alone. You can still be happy even socially inept." That's good advice? If you think that's good advice, you MUST think that telling a fat person to be content being fat (and telling...
  20. M

    Bad day

    So I'm going into self destruct mode. Things are bad with family college and friends. I'm not working, I have no motivation and this is my final year before I go to uni. I'm constantly arguing with my family. And I'm sleeping with loads of boys. I hurt someone I really care about by sleeping...
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