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2 of my friends are currently mad at me and and aren't talking with me. One is my roommate which makes it really hard. I'm really struggling and need help from my friends though but since their mad at me I feel like I can't bring my feelings of depression and thoughts of suicide up to them...

Currently I'm 22 years old. Mentally I feel, 67. Let's get down to it. At the age of four I remember this specific conversation I had with my cousins as they jokingly asked if I had a boyfriend considering I was only four. With excitement I said yes, my dad. They were confused and said no...

Hello everyone, I am new to this forum. I need advice that will actually work. Something I haven't heard before. I applogize if my post comes across as sounding snarky, I'm just tired and desperate. I have had clinical depression for several years. In this time, I have seen therapists, taken...

Hey so it's been a really long time since I've felt the need to come here and post but I didn't know where else to ask for advice really. So he's not my partner but a new guy I'm seeing. It's been going pretty good, he's in the army so we've only been on one date and it was amazing, I've never...

Its been like 5 months since my ex dumped me and cut off literally all communication. It really took me by surprise so I have a lot of pent up thoughts and anger and stuff about it. I've been trying to vent it out or just distract myself from it but it's just as prominent as it was 5 months ago...

Hello I am new to the site, I had a relapse in cutting lately and I have a question that may sound stupid to others.... Is it normal for my skin to give off bad heat? No I do not mean the cuts and there stinging I mean burn as in when someone touches them the heat even bothers them. I recently...

Hello all! I'll admit I'm not sure how to make friends now that I'm out of school. I've made a few friends at work but would love advice on finding new people who share my interests. I'm not a big drinker so not keen on hanging out at bars but not sure how else to meet people my age. My town is...

I'm not entirely sure if this post fits under this thread or not but if it doesn't, please let me know where it should go (if anywhere) and I'll do the thing. I'm sorry it's super long in advance. Please skip it if you need sleep. Not sure how to start but I would really like some support and...

last monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me while she was walking over to throw something in the trash can. Then later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me &...

So. I kinda feel stupid writing this, like somebody is actually going to take an interest in helping me, but here I go anyway. Lets start with my life. I live a pretty good life actually. I'm part of a loving Christian family. The thing is, they're all homophobic. Every single person around me...

n Hi All I am really stuck on to what to do with various situations in my life. Friday/Saturday On Friday i was at going to the art cafe (which i don’t really enjoy but i turn up for the cheap tea and coffee) and i was told by the nurse who runs it that due to my panic attack the previous...

Things that work for me Scenarios Let's say I am having a bad day and feeling really fed up with daily life and are feeling really bored or feeling really low and depressed but have no urges to harm or anything serious. Then a range of distractions help to get through the period I am having...

Advice: "so what if you are socially inept? Learn to be content with it and be happy that you'll always be alone. You can still be happy even socially inept." That's good advice? If you think that's good advice, you MUST think that telling a fat person to be content being fat (and telling...

So I'm going into self destruct mode. Things are bad with family college and friends. I'm not working, I have no motivation and this is my final year before I go to uni. I'm constantly arguing with my family. And I'm sleeping with loads of boys. I hurt someone I really care about by sleeping...

Long story short, I have BPD and it's really making my relationship difficult for me at the moment, I need my partner's attention without annoying him. I respect his needs too but I'm struggling and I don't know how to tell him this without seeming like I'm "doing it for attention"

I'm living in Japan at the moment. I tried to commit suicide in late February <mod edit> Obviously, I failed. I'm 21 and a student and live alone. But I haven't talked about it to anyone. I told people not to visit me in hospital, or if they did come I told them I was in there for a different...